Life without happiness is nothing. Our intention behind doing everything is to be happy and content. Happiness streams into our life in many different forms and it’s us who decide if we wanna embrace it or turn it down.
Imagine these scenarios and ask yourself would you feel happy –
- If you spend time with your loved ones?
- If someone admires you for helping them?
- If you get a proposal? (Business or wedding 😀 )
- If you travel to the most beautiful places on earth?
- If your dog gives you hugs? (I must say you are very lucky then 😀 )
- If you spend time with your best buddy?
- If you listen to your favourite playlist?
- If you finally put that idea on paper?
- If you get a promotion?
- If you read your favourite book?
- If you achieve something you have always dreamed for?
These are the moments to be cherished and It’s really great if we feel happy when we experience all these beautiful and happy moments. But don’t you think we have put so many “if’s” or “but’s” in our life and sometimes it becomes extremely difficult to live life peacefully because of these conditions. Because we think “If” we won’t get what we expect, our happiness would disappear far in the dark places of sorrow and resentment. But it’s not someone else who steals it from us. We let it disappear. So we always have to remind ourselves-
And yes!!!!! It’s extremely difficult to get good feelings when something bad happens to us. But choosing to be a victim of the bitter experiences is something we should not accept. Ultimately it’s our choice either to learn, be strong and move on or to fill ourselves with resentment, anger, worry and any other negative emotion. We have to stop convincing ourselves about how some situations are hard to overcome. Because It only takes a single moment to decide If we want to feel sad, angry, tired, lazy, happy, loving or excited.
Are you wondering -” how “? Really !!!!!!????
Hellooo!!!!! We possess one of the fascinating human abilities – “imagination”. Imagine means image-in, to create an image inside us. Now, what kind of images we want to keep inside us?
Should we choose an image which is horribly sad to fill our heart with a weird heaviness or something to fill our heart, mind, and soul with happiness which would give us a sense of great satisfaction?
We are the only ones to make that choice. And once we make the right choice, we would learn to appreciate the invaluable gifts given to us by God and we would never feel stuck, miserable, anxious or unfulfilled.
It is believed and proved that wherever our thought goes our life follows. So why not to think and imagine something we really want in our life. Imagination is a wonderful gift which will be valuable only if we unwrap it with positivity, happiness, and cheerfulness.
So it should be our utmost priority to think of-
- Happiness instead of disappointment.
- Love instead of hate.
- Dreams instead of needs.
- Soul instead of the body.
- Moments instead of time.
- Acceptance instead of resistance.
- Abundance instead of scarcity.
- Pleasure instead of pain.
- Togetherness instead of loneliness.
- Life instead of death.
Life is what we make it, not what happens to us. So let’s make it a series of beautiful memories. No matter how hard or cruel life becomes, there is always something which can make us completely happy. We just need to identify that “something” by going deep inside us where all the secrets about living a fulfilled life lies.
So do you also think that happiness is all in our mind or its something external?
I would love to know your thoughts on this 🙂
So feel freeeee to comment!!! 🙂